This site is boring me.
by Thir13en_Ghosts,Dec/02/2019Every time I come back nothing has changed, no new blogs, nobody answering any blogs, no messages, no likes, no one is talking to anyone else here, it's really boring me, we need to change that and start talking to each other or we'll never get what we came here for, as the old BT ad says it's good to talk.
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--Okay...sorry how bored you are...but,it is what it is on sites when members just dont reply anymore...lolss
--btw,if I may--- I tried to reply that guy about that short hair thingee...he blocked me cause I can make my comments regarding that statements...lolss
(better include here if you dont mind) I do read blogs.
Thanks Vic2ria but there's no sign of that changing even though I wish it would, the attitude of most people here seems to be to hold back on commenting sadly.
Well, it's now been three more days since making this blog and still nothing every time I come back nothing has changed, no new messages, no likes, no sign of any interest, like I said, boring.
As usual, nothing new, no messages, no likes, I'm seriously thinking about deleting this account, everyone here has such a standoffish attitude, no one ever speaks to a member of the opposite sex here, it's a waste of time.
Still the same day in day out, extremely bored with nothing ever happening on here, it's monotonous.
Thanks Vic2ria, you have now become one who does talk to others on this site and it's much appreaciated, however I'm led to believe that non talkative stigma still exists here on this site but the reasoning behind it is beyond reach.
It's always been that way and it's been this way since I've had an account here (years), however I have managed to find decent people who are actually interested in getting to know people as opposed to just saying they do and ignoring people who message them for no reason.
I think they just read the profile/look at photos and make their judgements as opposed to talking to them and trying to have a conversation. I have come to see that as a perk since those are precisely the people I don't want in my life to any degree.
The sad part is that the majority of women seem to that way. I will say this in their defense, though. I have gotten to know several people from here over the years and the common theme I hear is how rude the guys are around here generally. Many of them like to get into dirty talk pretty quickly and then are extremely rude when rejected. They make all the men on here look bad and we're not all like that.
This seems to happen A LOT here, so I can understand why they might feel hesitant about putting themselves out there. It can't be easy being a woman on dating sites.
Thanks Gohan, If the other person wants to talk dirty I'll go along with that but I won't instigate it myself, I like to let people go at their own pace and do things when they are ready to.
Of course, but I just thought I would try to shed some light on why he women here seem to ignore most messages they get. If you keep trying, you will eventually find some interesting people to talk to. Needle in a haystack and all that.
Thank you Gohan my friend, your thoughts are much appreciated.