Slheaey

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I give myself fully to anything i do, i dont believe in doing anything half assed, life is too short to be serious all the time. I'm a goofball i love to joke around and have fun but i can be serious when i need to be. My favorite place to go is the beach i cant get enough of it! Life has been crazy and I keep learning from it everyday. I have made alot of mistakes and done alot of stupid things but I have learned from the good and the bad. People can judge me for my past if they so wish but basing an opinion on another persons version of events is wrong and maybe if certain people actually asked me directly instead of assuming then things would be different...... "you know who you are" .....You should never take anything for granted no matter how big or small it may seem. I was not sent to this earth to make everyone else happy and put myself last sorry to disappoint. I have few people that im close to and trust but those i do have I would never trade for anything. I love my family and friends and they are extremely important to me. I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you I don’t think anyone can DO anything that would make him worthy of love. Love is a gift and cannot be earned. It can only be given. You can't love anyone until you understand that you can't love everyone. To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead. Assert your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your imperfections, that's their fault. Develop interest in life as you see it; in people, things, literature, music - the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself. People often say that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves. The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. To believe in God or in a guiding force because someone tells you to is the height of stupidity. We are given senses to receive our information within. With our own eyes we see, and with our own skin we feel. With our intelligence, it is intended that we understand. But each person must puzzle it out for himself or herself. Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better. Try as hard as we may for perfection, the net result of our labors is an amazing variety of imperfectness. We are surprised at our own versatility in being able to fail in so many different ways