Maruli

More about me:

I am looking for my mindmate and companion to grow old together in a serious, close, bonded, exclusive, committed relationship, as a shared and reciprocal safe haven.
My wish is a relationship according to the 'Egalitarian Rational Commitment Paradigm'. A web search will lead you to my blog, where you can learn more about myself and this concept.

I am German, this explains my not perfect English. My search for a compatible mindmate is world wide, if there is a common language, which can be English, German, Spanish, French, Dutch or Italian. In the times of email, telephone and airtravel, geographical distance is much easier to overcome than mental distance.

I will send a picture in private email, but only after a bit of corresponding, when there is enough interest in my person. I do not want to be either chosen or rejected because of a picture. If my profile without a picture does not interest you, then you are too superficial for me.

About my ideal partner:

Rational Woman Looking For A Sapiophile Brainiac

~ born between 1944 and 1953
~ university graduate;
~ atheist and apistic, a skeptic, rational and free of any woo-woo-beliefs;
~ politically between left and green;
~ intellectually discerning but materially modest
~ bearded and natural by refraining from any body-modification, lacking vanity;
~ prefer cooperation over competition;
~ more an Epicurean than a hedonist;
~ attracted to a mate's aptitude for intellectual intimacy;
~ no macho but rather a nice guy with a tendency towards psychological androgynity
~ sapiophile
~ childfree by not having any children of any age;
~ really free, not only 'separated' and not surrounding yourself with a harem of deactivated intimate (pseudo-ex-) partners;
~ not having or needing pets;
~ value sharing time and activities with a partner much more than money;
~ a stronger need for togetherness and sharing than for personal space and independence;
~ high ethical standards and values like honesty, sincerity, monogamy, faithfulness, reliability, responsibility, consideration;
~ sensitive, emotional, caring, hypoanimalistic,
~ a deep thinker, who enjoys meaningful and constructive communication;
~ not smoking, and drinking in moderation,
~ no dangerous hobbies like motorcycling

With the exception of the beard, I am all of the above myself.

In contrast to many other women, it is UNIMPORTANT for me, if you are or are not
~ taller than myself (5'4")
~ wealthy with a high social status
~ a strong and muscular stud

I want to love, not to puke. I do NOT want any contact with men, who evoke my nausea, because they are:
~ cheaters;
~ promiscuous like alley dogs abusing female bodies without long-term commitment;
~ consumers of pornography;
~ considering such behaviors as principally acceptable