Xanderkm

More about me:

I always try to say something clever and witty as an opener but between The Fake'ies and the no responses it is a little hard to want to use the effort. I can guarantee I am Totally Real

Is it so wrong that a Nice looking guy - who is stuck in a loveless Marriage (and who has had Sex kept from him for what seems like forever) to want to find a woman who can be open-minded enough to try to find time for and may get into a Friends with Benefits scenario.

I am very respectful and friendly. I can make conversation about anything and love to be around people. Life is too short to string someone along for that 3rd Date for the wonderful F**** Fest and it is way too short not to live it to the fullest..

You should be 18 to 45. I do not really care about Age, Race, BBW, tiny petite, Etc. I have just really gotten to the point where I really want Some Adult Closeness

I find myself the most attracted to woman who have very dark eyes. So that would be a bonus. You must like to be touched. I am a touchy feely guy. I love to hold, touch, rub, and fondle. I like just sitting next to a woman and having each of us lightly run our fingers and hands over each other. This does not always have to be sexual either.

And now – you want honesty – this is all of me in a nutshell. ((WARNING)) I am not wining I am just giving you Full disclosure which you all say you totally need.

Me:
I am 36, I am 5’8, and weigh about 250, my waist is size 38. I am a little big around the middle but am very fit. I got injured during Military Training in 98 and find it hard to find exercises that I can do that do not require a ton of drugs after. I would rather be a little heavy then not have a liver or kidney in the future.

I have been married 2 times. The first ended with Wife dying of leukemia. The second ended with disrespect. Seriously my ex actually said “when I met you – you were getting over your late wife – you were a mess – The perfect project guy. I wanted to mold you into something for me. Now I am done with the Project!’

I have 2 great kids (6 and 10) who are in school till 2pm. If we were to meet and you want someone to host it would have to be between 9am and 2pm. I have a car – I drive, and can pick you up if you need. If you cannot do the morning thing I can get away in the evenings but cannot host.

I am not and would not be cheating. She goes out with her “friends” all the time – makes me sleep in a separate room, and uses me as her live-in maid. I am not supposed to watch porn, TV, touch her, or do anything but Clean the house. Nothing is ever good enough. I am tired of it. I need Companionship. I need to feel needed again.

I hope I hear from at least one person… There has got to be someone out there for me..

About my ideal partner:

My Main fantasy is to find a woman who is comfortable enough to make up her mind about someone by talking to them on-line, on the phone, or thru emails – then maybe txt, then finely meet in a public place for coffee or something.