Smiley55

More about me:

Hi,
I am Hassan, and, I am a man who keeps himself involved in a world that seduces, sustains, thrills and worries him. My life has been largely lived as a singular person among others- I have been known to be exotic, smart, handsome and yet 'different.' The differences are less from my culture than my virtue of my family of origin- a family that has been torn apart by geographical, but, mainly interpersonal forces. These are forces that repel rather than enjoin members to the task of supporting a family by submerging self, in a fold, in order to use that fold experience to develop as a confident and fit person in the larger society. People can travel around the globe and come to a different land and be more alone than I was when I immigrated as at the age of 10- but less alone in terms of their own being, because, they walk through life with their own invisible family- culture- value- system.
I am by and large an American- as much certainly as my neighbors. I know more than most but in terms of the great American alienation- where family/cultural/ religious 'rules' have been botoxed from the forehead- I am, one and the same.
Like Americans too- when I look to discovering a person to love and open this otherwise heavy weight glass shield around me- I think of things like what to 'do' with that person' will that person join me in doing what is 'fun' for me- the 'exterior features' of a good life.
If you’re interested please write to me at a.man-the at symbol-vfemail.net, I am not a member of this website. Grin.
About you.
Are you a woman with a soul, ready to explore a union with another? Well the process of bearing the layers of the onion scares me- for one thing- there are things in my life that continue to turn me inside out- and always- because I am healthy- it has been best for me- to get out and work/play in the world. I've lived a self- designed therapeutic life- and you have also, though you may use other words to describe your experience. Maybe you’re scared too? But even speaking of allowing myself to be open to a new relationship clouds my day- I keep insisting to myself that a great dancer/kayaker/cook/ goddess of Kama Sutraesque dimensions will make the cloud that lives inside me give way, to the sun.
And yet women I've been told are largely moon people- their dances- given the choice- would be more group-like and occurring in full moons with enormous exclusivity and mystery.
What you 'do' with your time and what I do with mine is, in my opinion, far from the crux of the matter. I don’ t believe that love hits us with any form of logic or timing- it merely hits us- and when it's Jekyll-Hyde head butts our own- the Jekyll is generally something that we'd not see nor anticipate in the other- because that's not the nature of this phenomenal human potion. My romantic side dreams of a Collision of Fantasies!
“Why Hassan,” a friend offered recently, “you can find a woman who’s enlightening. Women who are clever in their performance of the details of living come in all different sorts.”
When you have danced in that deep Forrest of night- with the audacity of nakedness and only that bonfire to stave off the cold- I will not be so concerned about the other oar of the boat- I'm thinking- I'm thinking that should you, my moon goddess, not attend that latest rendition of Sweeney Todd I will enjoy it with another or alone even more than before because each time you dance in moonlight-you’ll return to me with more power to erase forever those clouds of loneliness that have been crying within me.

Now I'm uncertain as to your exact address, but I’m certain that I’ll find you.
My gift is one of confidence, intelligence, easy conversation, sensuality and the ability to make you feel respected and at ease in a wide range of social settings. And yes, I’m a good listener.
Moon goddess, do you want to e-mail, talk or meet?

About my ideal partner:

When you have danced in that deep Forrest of night- with the audacity of nakedness and only that bonfire to stave off the cold- I will not be so concerned about the other oar of the boat- I'm thinking- I'm thinking that should you, my moon goddess, not attend that latest rendition of Sweeney Todd I will enjoy it with another or alone even more than before because each time you dance in moonlight-you’ll return to me with more power to erase forever those clouds of loneliness that have been crying within me.