Edna_24november

More about me:

I am an easy going woman that is very simple. I am not into playing head games. I do like to have a good time with friends and family...meaning I know when to have fun and can laugh and enjoy life...but I also know when its time to be serious. I don't want a guy that still feels he needs to be a child...there is a difference with a guy that still enjoys life and might even be carefree, silly and even childish at times...I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as he's doing it to enjoy life and have a good time...but I don't want a guy that feels the need to hang out with his friends every time they call or want a drinking partner. Hope you can understand what I mean. I am not controlling and would never keep someone from their friends...just that I have been in a relationship where the guy felt the need to prove to his friends that he was like this big man on campus and could out drink them all...while spending all his money on them and having no money to feed his family. I don't need that in my life anymore...need someone to enjoy life with...sharing our lives. I am adventurist willing to try new things and going to new places. I am a window and have two adult children by my late husband. I also have a 3 year old boy and 1 year old daughter. My Daughter is on her own and has her own family...My oldest Son just graduated College and is awaiting employment then he will also move out on his own. I was with the father of my youngest kids for six years...at first he did all the right things you would expect in a relationship...somewhere along the way like some relationships things started to change...he started drinking all the time...hanging out on the streets with his friends all day and night...sometimes even missing work in order to drink with friends. When I had enough and kicked him out he again changed and started acting right...he moved back in and I believed he learned his lesson and everything was good...I ended up getting pregnant and thought everything would be fine and we would be a happy family...but after our daughter was born and he knew he had to work hard he snapped again and started doing the wrong things again...I was the one supporting the family and keeping it together...with the help of his family we talked him into getting work away from his friends and made him realize he has his own family to take care of. He ended up going to another island cause there wasn't much work around here...when he first got there again everything was fine...he was sending money home for his son and was in constant contact. But then lies started one after another...from loosing phones to loosing money...rumors started flying in that he was asking his coworkers to join him at the bar after work and buying them drinks as long as they would hang out with him...and also spending money on young girls in the clubs. After a short time...the communications were fewer and fewer...he was sending less money or no money at all. Whenever I would question what he was doing or where his money was going he would curse at me and say it was not my business. So I didn't know what to do...I wasn't concerned with him sending money for me...but I couldn't believe he wouldn't even send money for our son. So over a year has passed and I think its time I move on with my life. I wrote all this cause I want anyone reading this to know my story...don't want to keep something from someone...just get it out in the open. I am under contract working at the National Statistics Office...work under contracts whenever they need me. I save while under contract so I can still support me and my family while I don't have work. I am not wanting to find someone here for support...I am seriously wanting to find someone I can fall in Love with and share the rest of my life with. If you don't mind my past and really want to find someone special please contact me...lets see if we are meant for each other!

About my ideal partner:

I’m looking for someone that can enjoy life...not be to serious as in making life dull...no when to have a good time...but also someone that knows how to be serious! I don't care how rich a man is...don't care if he has that job in the top floor of a high rise or a guy that just has a simple basic job. But, I also don't want a guy that is lazy and unmotivated that he can't support his family or even himself. I am not after a man's money to support me or my family...I really want to find a guy that seriously wants to find someone to share their life with me. So that means guys that just want to find someone to have a good time with and leave them or guys that want to find a girl to have internet sex with...Please go somewhere else...I'm not here to take off my clothes to anyone unless I truly find a soulmate and we are together! I know there are good men out there that want someone that will treat them with respect, honesty, trust ect.... If your that guy then please contact me. I have a great heart...and I'm willing to share that with the right man. I'm not so concerned with how attractive a man is on his outer appearance as I am at his inner appearance.