Gtrider

More about me:

I've seen so many cynical, frustrated women ask if there are ANY good men out there, I just had to turn it around. We all know there are plenty of great people in this world; the trick is to find them!

I'm living alone, going through a low-drama divorce which I initiated. I'd like to think that I've got my act together... A great paying, recession-proof job, a nice home, great family & friends, no drug/alcohol/health/crazy ex issues, and many other blessings.

Let me tell you about what I'm into...

I enjoy motorcycling in a BIG way. I ride, a lot... I've got a sport-touring bike that pulls a small trailer containing an amazing array of camping gear. Be it by bike, car, or air, I love to take weekend trips. I have several Harleys, off-road bikes, and we're putting together a couple of bikes to race flat track. I build custom bikes on the side with my best friend, in our well-equipped shop. I honestly can't tell you how many bikes that I own.

I'm a drummer. I've played on and off in bands all of my life. I've got a modest, but well-equipped studio in my home, and I'm looking forward to getting back to playing out again.

As for religious preferences, after 12 years of parochial school and then a BS degree from a Nazarine college, I've changed gears... For the last 7 years, I've gone into the woods to celebrate my native heritage with a group of fellow "heathens," taking part in a Lakota sweat lodge ceremony. It's extremely spiritual, and intense... It's certainly not for everyone, but it is the cornerstone of my spiritual life.

I try my best to get to the gym several times a week. I still smoke, and truly regret that fact. I'm taking Chantix and am dedicated to kicking the butts to the curb. I'm one of those "in recovery" types that your Momma may have warned you about- Haven't had a drink or drug in over 20 years, and society is safer for that fact! If you like to drink a bit, no worry, but I know that I can't get involved with anyone sporting an illicit drug habit.

AND SO, that's enough about me. I'm looking for an attractive, intelligent, reasonably put together lady to spend some quality time with. I'm entirely capable of a monogamous relationship. I'm a bit old fashioned, I suppose, as I open doors, pull back chairs, and have respect for others. I'm way too busy for games & BS. I'll be diplomatically honest with you, and expect the same in return. There's no end game here. I've learned that too often, expectations are only premeditated disappointments. The illusion of security is just that- An illusion. To look into your lover's eyes, to be understood and mutually nurtured, brings that peace and happiness that is all too rare in relationships. We only have today to live, and I plan on making the most of it. God knows I'm not looking for perfection by any means, as I know I'm FAR from perfect. If this makes sense to you, get back with me.

About my ideal partner:

I'm looking for one honest, intelligent, outgoing, attractive lady, that has an open mind, and a good life already in progress...