Ivoryrebel

More about me:

I have hazel eyes, multi-colored hair (reds, browns, blacks), I'm full figured, I could lose some, and I do at times, for the most part this is who I am... I've never been into drugs.
I prefer honest relationships as I'm honest to a fault. I believe rights right, and wrong is wrong, ...
I'm not the jealous type, nor do I tolerate jealousy. I believe life is complicated enough without worrying about things you have no control over. I know if you can't be honest with yourself, you can't be honest with me.
I'm not looking to get married, the name my Daddy gave me is just fine, I have no problem taking it with me when I leave this earth. HoweverI am looking for a possible commited lifelong relationship.
I'm not hard to get along with. I do have strong opinions in regard to some subjects. I won't contact or reply to those in thier thirties/ forties/fifties/older stating they are looking for 18- year olds. I simply don't understand why anyone would feel this is okay. Legal age does not make them any less children, and if you're the person who thinks it is okay, then you already know how I feel about your type. I'm not looking to debate this subject, please just pass me by.
I'm not interested in partying, and I really have no problem if others do "occasionally" but I'm not interested in somebody that parties all the time either. I know trying to keep people on lockdown is a waste of time, eventually all the fluff comes off. People that party all the time, are usually disruptive at home, or they are just blobs, not looking to share my home with either type. I'm just being honest. I'm just looking for a life partner, someone who can chill with me, when I'm chillin, share lifes up's and downs. Can have his own interest without those interest being different women, and seeing how many he can get with.

I don't want to move from my home. I'm not looking for a sugardaddy. If our relationship moved forward I would only expect you to pay your share. I'm not looking to take care of anyone financially or have anyone take care of me. I've been independent all my life.
My lifestyle is pretty laid back. Sometimes I only leave my home because I have no other choice. That's just "me", I'm not looking to change someone's personality type, nor do I want someone to attempt to change mine. I work at home and in all honesty need to be left alone during my work hours. I'm just thinking there has to be somebody that's right for me. My idea of being in public is sitting on my front porch. I'm not anti-social, and folks stop by to chat, I just don't go looking for people to chill with anymore.
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I PREFER an African American man. I'm not a white girl trying to act black, I'm who I am and I know what I want. It's imparative he be neat, clean, and good smelling (which does not mean cologne over funk!!). When I say neat and clean that doesn't mean you have to be suit & tie, it simply means dont "pull it out of the hamper and wear it because it's the cleanest dirty clothes you have".
The guy I'm looking for is honest, strong & secure in who he is. He is gentle, and never abusive verbally or physically. He has no control issues, because I'm surely the wrong person for him. I'm a grown woman, I already know how to act. He must have his own interest, with that I mean I can't be with someone 24 hours a day. Go do what you do, and if you're shady...when I find out...you wont be back. I know I cant nor do I feel the need to change who you already are.
I guess that's it for now.