Stephenhots

More about me:

I?????m Stephen. I am a 3rd generation Japanese-American born in Washington D.C. I have lived in 12 states - a corporate vagabond. After getting my MBA at Harvard, I started my career in marketing management at General Mills, running brands like Cheerios. My claim to fame was inventing Honey Nut Cheerios. I changed my focus to high tech running several computer companies and founded a high tech start up. A seminal event change by life when I was diagnosed with leukemia and given 3 years to live unless I had a bone marrow transplant. Finding a donor was a very long shot. But by the grace of God, I found my miracle match. My belief system was based on self reliance with the ego that I could control my life. When I was told that in order to live, I had to depend on the kindness and generosity of a complete stranger - my delusion of control just vanished. This epiphany was a gift that totally changed my priorities. Instead of focusing all my energy on material success, I now focus on family, friends, helping others and on living everyday to the fullest. I am now living on a 62????? sailboat in LA,. Well informed and traveled extensively, my favorite activities are: sailing, scuba diving, snow skiing, golf, dancing, travel, NYC theater and partaking in all of life?????s pleasures. I am well informed, articulate, able to laugh at myself, a good conversationalist, a well mannered gentleman with aesthetic tastes. I am affectionate, love to touch and be touched, loyal, giving, passionate about important things, like kissing and cuddling, have deep conversations on any subject, considerate and a giving lover. I play the guitar and like to sing. I don?????t smoke, don?????t do drugs, social drinker and disease free.

I'm a romantic at heart. Kind and generous. Non-judgmental and quick to help.

About my ideal partner:

Seeking classy lady who is: intelligent, fit, accomplished, a good conversationalist, well informed on current events, good hearted and passionate. You should be as beautiful on both the inside and outside. You are active, curious, good sense of humor, playful, affectionate, like to touch and be touched. You like to be active and being outdoors. You are confident in you sexuality. No drama, just fun.