Kansas

More about me:

All the basics upfront, lets not waste anyones time here. So PLEASE READ THIS...

Sometimes Im online from my phone and it says Im online when Im not...lol

If you wont date someone who lives more than 75 miles away click that option!!!!

If you wont date someone older than you click that option!!!!

I don't watch T.V. much,like almost never, if I try to watch something I get bored in the first few min and shut it off. I do like to watch DVDs once in a while. But not a big T.V. person.

Sex is part of a relationship it isn't the reason to be in a relationship. So if the feelings are real then the rest comes natural. IM NOT INTO SEXUAL HOOK UPS OF ANY KIND.

I do have requirements, Teeth is a must! sorry if that offends.. I have my preferences. You must bathe, AND BRUSH the teeth,non smoker would be awesome but a light smoker I can handle.

I'm not a beauty queen and act far from it. We all have our insecurities admitting them or not. Looks are a big part of attraction BUT not all of it... So I am aware that a big reason most profiles get looked at is because of the pic.I will say this, I clicked average because it is about what I am I have recently lost 30 pounds and working on more, so Im not thin but not big.. Im not going to mislead anyone.

I would love to meet someone that would be willing to help me change my lifestyle a little. Not that I dont like it but when you are used to the same thing it does get boring and some what normal. I want someone that wouldnt mind going for walks, runs etc. I like those things.. just not alone.

But a personality is such a winner in my book, I clicked yes on someone that I didn't think I had a chance in hell with and looked completely opposite of my normal type, His personality won me over,and I hoped things were real, BUT I'm here so I guess not.

By the way I am NOT sending a naked pic and NO I don't want to see yours! I do have kids, but I can not have anymore. I welcome anyone that has them and would treat them as my own.

I love to laugh and have fun, I will be the first person to make fun of myself I'm a goofball and I know it.
I am not a clingy prson but if I am into someone I make sure they know it. I love spending time with him and doing as much as possible together. I love the little good morning texts,the in the middle of the the day calls saying he misses me.. anything that shows we are thinking of each other is what makes a relationship strong and worth while.

I am a BIG communicator. And I expect the same, I can not read anyones mind and I will a lot of times read more into things if Im not told correctly so its in all our best interst to COMMUNICATE..lol

I'm not big in the bar scene, will go on occasion if there is a live band, not a big drinker but will drink if the mood hits me. I sit in the corner in the back when I do go. And wouldn't you know it the drunkest guy in the bar that has pee'd himself still finds his way over to me to ask me to dance!!!So if you are a big drinker Im not sure this would be a good match.

I do have a couple tattoos, I LOVE motor cycles I don't own one YET, But love riding them.Just because I love bikes doesn't mean I'm going to decide if I want to talk to you or not. it is just something I like. Im not materialistic at all, actually opposite.
I don't get all worked up over jewelery "don't wear it" flowers are nice once in a while but I LOVE hand written letters... simple is so much more special to me...

I like ALL types of music but rap and some older country, I'm somewhat shy in person, I know hard to believe from reading the novel here.. but in person you cant hide behind a computer screen.


A mom is tidying her son's bedroom and finds a hidden stack of bondage and fetish magazines. She asks her husband what to do. He says DO NOT FRICKIN SPANK HIM!