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More about me:

It is said that when you are in love, you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams and that love is not about finding the perfect person, it is seeing an imperfect person perfectly. I want to find a woman whom makes me feel that I never want to sleep again and who sees my imperfections as perfection. Too much to ask? Maybe.

The only way to describe me is that I am one of those very rare men, a normal guy who wants a serious, sensible relationship with a normal woman who appreciates both my qualities and what I have to offer to her. Being an ex lawyer who has worked in the movie industry for 5 years and now runs his own company, intelligence and common sense are qualities that I have been blessed with and so a woman with brains is a must for me. Brains before beauty is definitely a prerequisite because looks eventually fade and if there is nothing else there then what's the point? I know on here a lot of people are just about looks but a woman must be beautiful on the inside otherwise her inner ugliness will soon show, so if you are a woman who has managed thus far to get by on her looks then good luck and power to you, but I am looking for more. Is that too much to ask? A woman with a warm, kind and loving outlook on life is the type of person for me and I do not mind if she has children.

I am a strong, confident, insightful man who is generous in spirit and mind, and dare I say, sophisticated. Equality and respect in a partnership is essential as far as I am concerned. Oh yes, sense of humour is also a must, I have been told I am hilarious and so the ability to have fun and laughing is something that you must possess. Life is serious and hard enough and so being able to laugh and joke in the face of adversity is a great way of alleviating the stresses and strains of the day.

I am not afraid to be emotional even though it may make me seem vulnerable, which is either a blessing or a curse (depends which way you look at it) but its part of me and I do not intend to change in the near future. If you think that is a sign a weakness in a man then, again, I am not for you. Simply put, I wear my heart on my sleeve and am not scared to share my thoughts and feelings.

Being kind, caring and loving, I am prepared to put my all into the right relationship with a woman who can love and appreciate me. If you have never seen The Notebook then you must get it on DVD and watch it one evening with a glass of wine and make sure that you have a box of tissues nearby. If you have seen it then you will understand me when I say, that is exactly what I am looking for in my life.