Humbleman10

More about me:

First off, ladies don't be scared from the size of my profile. Size matters in this case! Trust me! If you don't like to read then you are too shallow for me anyway, so keep going. I am tired of all the women that just want sex from me and a fancy dinner. Now I like sex just as much as the next guy. I have been out of the dating game for 22.5 years and much has changed. I am divorced and do my best to support my kids though they live in another state, so don’t judge me and I won’t judge you. I am looking for that special lady of depth of character and balance. Also, ladies, my profile was not written from a book, but from my heart. I am actually a hopeless romantic and adventurer, but they didn't have that to pick from. I am kind, compassionate, very, very romantic, very passionate, very loving, very loyal and fun. When we're apart, you will not doubt my love for you. All of my plans will be centered around being with you as much as possible, because you are the other half of me and I am the other half of you, and we are not complete without each other. I love art, museums, the beach, mountains, exotic destinations! I traveled across the U.S. 12 times and have been to 8 countries, when I was in the Navy. I'm try to live life simply. I am very handy around the house and I like to fix things or at least try to fix things! I'm a pretty good cook and enjoy helping my friend, lover and wife for life with all of the things to make for a happy home. I am not afraid of the normally routine things like taking out the trash, washing dishes or vacuuming, and general cleaning! I like things clean and tidy. I am sensitive to the feelings of others, very empathetic and compassionate. I am smart, funny, logical planning, assertive when the time is right, and a great shoulder to cry on or just rely when you need to. I would hold you close in my arms just to let you know you are mine and I love you! I am also a very good listener and I'll be there for you when you need to tell your problems to someone. Together we will find the answers to the questions we do not know the answers too yet, and celebrate our commonalities and differences and meet each problem presented to us together and try to resolve any problem that arises together! Sometimes I am spontaneous and adventurous in love and in life! I try very hard to keep the excitement and joy in a relationship alive! If we both keep working hard every day to keep our love alive and hot, then our love will last the rest of our lives! Real living is not made up of what you do, it is made up of who you choose as a soul-mate and the mutual love they share. Life's circumstances may change, but real love lasts forever if it is tended to and cared for. I am neither rich nor poor. I do not travel much an more, just around the state of California, but wouldn’t mind a planned trip with my special lady.
I believe that physical attraction and intimacy are an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship and healthy love life just as important as the spiritual and emotional parts and intellectual part of a relationship and both people have to give 100% of themselves to others or the relationship is doomed to fail. Many women have poured their lives into their kids and their home or career as many men have only to find out years later they have drifted so far apart, now they just exist together and the passion is gone. It is gone, because the focus changed. When one or both in a relationship lose their focus from their love, their partner for life that when the trouble starts and often times the focus is never regained and the ultimate end is divorce. I don't want that! My grandma was very smart, she said, "When a man and a woman come together, it takes time and effort and special attention and if they will work as hard to stay together as they did to get together, they will make it!" So, now on to the rest. I like touching and being touched. We like to plan our lives around each other. It isn't about spending time with the boys down at the club or where ever. I appreciate a lady that acts like one and doesn't hit or want to be the tomboy although you can get dirty if you have to. I appreciate the giving and receiving the subtle and not so subtle hints of affection. I really enjoy kissing and so must you and holding hands in public or private. I really enjoy hugging, cuddling, and passionate lovemaking. The only reason I mention any of these is because in counseling others I have discovered many woman shy away from this. Sounds strange but very true, over 48 percent. We are unyielding, together stronger, striving to maintain all the things that brought us together in the first place. I want to desire you and for you to desire me in all the physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual aspects of our relationship until our lives are done. That will require a regular attention to selflessness. Together, we share our deepest hopes, dreams, desires , goals and fantasies and then live them together as part of life's great adventure! We attend to each other with little love notes, flowers, romantic dinners prepared by me or us together or out on the town. You must be very reliable, very attentive, very honest, compassionate, very passionate, very sensual, very romantic, very loyal. You and I look forward during life's busy week to the weekends to share the love offered freely and without reservation to each other! We are two souls united forever as one, with one heartbeat, one rhythm and cannot live without the other! This is what I'm looking for!

You will be my one and only precious jewel of my soul for me to honor and protect and will welcome my love, devotion, worship, friendship and the desire of my heart and feel the same towards me. You understand that love and happiness is not in the money! You love me for me and I love your for you. You are serious and not trying to play with my feelings. You share moral convictions. You must be relationship oriented. You understand that the mutual love relationship comes first before family, not second or third place like so many think. I quite understand in a single parent situation how the children become the focus of care. That just makes sense, but once the relationship becomes established the focus must change. I am looking for my best friend, lover, confidant, wife for the rest of my life. Please, only women who need to respond are those looking for a serious, meaningful relationship. Must have clear, recent photos and by recent, I meant this year not 5 years ago or 10 or your high school days or your photo shopped pics that hide all your wrinkles, blood shot nose, cheeks and eyes OK? Been fooled too many times to count.
But before we meet for coffee or lunch or dinner, let’s chat more and if we both feel comfortable, then we can exchange numbers and text or talk via phone or even skype.

My interests: I am interested in woodworking, playing my guitar, singing and seranading you with a romantic love song or just having a good time of laughing and playing around, museums, going out or staying in for a nice dinner and a movie or just simple good conversation. When it come to movies-I only like one kind though-action packed, thriller, mystery, science fiction, romance, comedy, light horror adventure. I like wine tasting, exercising and eating right but not crazy like some and keep my weight down to trim, opera, theatre, concerts of all kinds. Love to drive and sight see and see God's wonderful creation whether camping, hiking in the mountains or relaxing and walking on a nice beach hand in hand with you, love to meet new people and experience new cultures and foods. I only like 3 kinds of food: hot, warm and cold!:-) quiet night by the fireplace in the winter sipping some nice wine and alone for a romantic evening, or us both making a meal together.