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More about me:

Hi my name is Elijah or E-lis for short. Ima Caribbean black man with long dreads (yes long, meaning long hair don't care) and blue eyes, from a small island called Antigua (Google it) Ima Musical studio engineer, meaning I record music for other ppl but I use to sing myself and was in grammy nominated group called (Shadow Law Clique) knowledge is power, there you can research me and find out more things about me that has been recorded over many years. I'm proud of the man I am and was, if you don't like a successful man, Than don't waste my time plz leave my profile now. I'm also working at the Café in Phx on central, they have great food, you should definitely try some.

I recently moved Phx AZ from Brooklyn NY, well since Jan/2013 so it's been alil over a year now. Life is abit hard here to get use to, it's really slow compared to NYC but I believe that Love is where the heart is, so if I can find Love, than I can be home here in AZ.

I've been here before and many women seem to look pass what I'm looking for (which is love, affection and understanding. A long term relationship) yes I do get a lot of message from women, so plz don't waste time if a long term relationship is not your goal. I'm not looking for one night stands ( friends with benefits,no strings attach, misses right now, etc.) Don't need to be on the internet for that, I have no intentions on settle for less,hooking up with lame chicks who just wants to get laid becuz there boring man is slacking or any other situation you can think of, So Let's just be clear here, Ima very handsome black caribbean man, if I was just looking for a hookup/booty call, I could've found it at any local bar,club or street corner.

I want the full package (a relationship) So plz no games, I know my profile has a purpose and it's to keep lame wack chicks off my nuts, although alot of you still don't get it and try wasting my time anyways, trading numbers knowing you just wanna have sex or trade naked pics but when it comes to meeting in person, your a no show or married looking for a side man, just another lame or fake catfish you would think by reading this, it means you would have a better understanding of what I'm looking for and if you sent me message or replied to my message, that your looking for the same thing I'm looking for, a long term relationship.

I know my profile may seem long, especially for a guy since we have a tendency of not speaking our my minds before entering a serious relationship but I think that's what makes me different from the other guys you've met online, by explaining, sharing and saying the things that I think my future partner should know before entering a relationship/friendship with me, making our relationship a strong relationship, (trust,honesty,loyalty,love and passion).

My ideal woman: The woman I seek to spend my life with has to be strong, freaky and confident, (Beauty) is more than skin deep, you might look amazing with your make up on but as a guy this is something you need to hear,when you have sex and it's good, you make the ugliest faces you'll ever make in your life, correction there's the moment of giving birth, both moments very special, if a guy really likes you than, there's no way we won't without make up. Yeah I know, you like to wear it, which is great, but not everyday, let your face breathe so I can see the person under the make up. I love the you that wakes up with no make up that I find so attractive and beautiful, the you I wanna kiss all morning with your stink morning breath (lol) trying to get you to stay in my arms longer, that's the part of you I love to wake up too the most.

What men find attractive in you (the woman) is how you know if he really cares about you the person and not the make up you apply to carry on your day as the person you see yourself. There's many factors that are involved when a man is looking for what attracts him to a woman, for example (a smile or the way you bite your lips when you don't even realize it or your shape to the way you walk to back of the store or Your beautiful feet when your trying on open toe heels) there's so many things a guy finds sexy about a woman without you even realizing it for yourself. My best features is my blue eyes, becuz I'm black, it's very unusual eye color for blacks, so women notice it fast, than there's my lips and my long dreads, giving you the Bob Marley effect, than my accent when they hear me speak, Ima man of many talents and most women see that from the first galance some get intimidated becuz they think I'll get to many compliments, and being a jealous woman some don't want a handsome man becuz of the attention I receive.

Next is my confidence I truly believe in myself and that confidence help others to believe in them selves, I know I'm that Nigga, self confidence goes a long way, weather it's at work, home or just in your daily life. Here's my belief of a relationship, I believe a great relationship is built on the foundation of trust,friendship and honesty, by gaining someone's trust and proving that you're a trustworthy person, becomes the foundation to a great friendship, being bestfriends with your partner means that you could talk to each other about anything and not have to worry about hurting each others feelings when your being honest with eachother,after all a best friend's job is to tell you the truth no matter how harsh or horrible it may sound.

The goal is not to hurt your feelings but to help you move forward as a unit and better your relationship, I hope this makes sense to that special woman that I am looking for. And if you believe I wrote all of this just to get laid than you must be crazy, this a man that knows what he wants and need for my lifetime of me to the wrong woman and being hurt and having his heart broken, im not afraid to say I've been hurt or I've loved and I've never been married after being turned down twice two proposals with two different women one I dated for 8 years, even after getting pregnant for my best friend, those things made me the man I am today and im proud of the man the looks me back from the mirror, I think you would be too if you gave him a chance to impress you.

On my naughty side ima huge freak and love to be challenge in the bedroom (so there's no confusion being freaky is not doing nasty things like R.Kelly sheets) there's nothing I wouldn't do to my lady to satisfy her very sexual need or fantasy, (there's no reason to hold out,as I said before I'm looking for my last first kiss) so I want you to have all of me to keep, as long as it doesn't involves me being a man I'm down for your pleasure. Sex is not everything in relationship but studies show the two main reason marriages don't last is money and sex, so at the end of the day I wanna know you,the lady I choose, can plz me. If your a woman with limits, holding out becuz your waiting for the right man to try them with, why are you wasting our time if I'm not the last guy you wanna be with ? Like seriously think about that before you start telling me some backwards dumb shit after sending me naked pics than saying how scared you are to meet new Ppl, but how about you see me naked though, trust me, it happens. I do love to cuddle and kiss and alot of (PDA) if you don't than there's no reason to continue this talk I don't hide my love, not saying get naked in the street but a kiss here and there and holding hands, sounds like a great idea.