Honcho

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I'm tired of being the only one who tries and puts forth an effort. If you're interested then show it. I won't chase and I won't fight for a place in your heart. You want to talk, get to know me, then you have to actually put aside some time for me...on that note...I find it strange those that say they don't reply to just hi or hello or hey, these are called greetings and we've been doing it for thousands of years. Am I supposed to give you a word problem or brain teaser? What's so wrong with hi?

Simple man, simple wants. Just a normal guy looking for a normal life with an amazing woman to share my life with and all that entails. I've made mistakes and will make some more down the road, but, we all deserve a little bit of happiness no matter who we are, where we've been, or what we've done. I miss waking up to someone, miss someone to talk about the day with, miss the conversation, mostly the companionship of a woman. Let's face it, being alone really kinda blows. I want my love, my rock, my light. That being said, if you want someone in your life you have to put a little effort into making time for that someone. There should be no "too busy", or "no time"...you make time for those you want to make time for. How can you expect something great to happen if you don't let it cause you're too busy? I understand people are busy with life, but for ****'s sake, it is exhausting being the only one who tries... I'll never get it. If you spend more time on your phone than interacting with me and other humans, I don't want you. If you can't and won't make time for me, I don't want you. If you are not completely honest, I don't want you.

I find it interesting how many females' profiles read "Are there any good ones out there" or "Where's all the good guys". Women say they want this, they want that, want a real man not a boy, no games, no drama, etc.... Truth is I don't believe you know what you want because at the first sign of someone trying to be what "you want", we're being too clingy, or moving too fast, or "maybe our relationship goals aren't similar". If you keep looking for faults in a guy, you're eventually going to find some. It intrigues me how we find all kinds of reasons NOT to be with someone yet don't pay attention to the reason we SHOULD. However, I turn that question around on you...Are there any females out there that appreciate a gentleman, or a "good" guy? How are you any different from any other shallow female? Prove you AREN'T like all the others. Make time for me, talk to me, act like you're interested in anything other than yourselves. Prove you mean what you say and say what you mean, cause us good guys actually out there are tired of trying to show you everything you SAY you want and treat you like a woman deserves..when you get it then act like you don't want it. I think you wouldn't know how to handle being treated well by a great guy who would take a bullet for you. Sadly, I continue to give and give..but how many of you have the damn passion and will to give back? We "good guys" may be few and far between, but we're out here..looking. Put a little effort into looking at what's beyond a profile, and not so much into other shit. Prove to us good ones still out here that we actually are what you say you want and not just some bull sh*t line to fill up profile space. Why start talking to me then stop all the sudden...why say anything at all? Makes no sense. It's like 90% copy and paste what others say anyway. Why would you make a profile on a dating site and be too busy to find someone? Strange. Does anyone at all have the will and passion to not give up so damn quickly?!

I don't feel anyone is perfect, but I believe in unconditional love for one person, where all their imperfections they feel they have are perfect to you. Not sure I believe in the "my type" saying. I believe the heart wants what it wants, that could be with someone you never imagined it could be with. Take a leap of faith, obviously if we all had someone we thought was your "type", we wouldn't be here looking for the one still. I guess "my type" is someone who doesn't give up on us, is 100% faithful, loyal, and honest. Obviously there needs to be a physical attraction. Just be you. Have a sense of humor, but know when to be serious. Give me back what I give out to you. Don't talk down about yourself, or me. Be my true partner in life and I guarantee it will be a good life. Appreciate me and what I do for you, and I'll keep you on your toes, and keep you laughing. I'm a very passionate person when it comes to the woman in my life. I'm funny, sweet, loyal, loving, caring, giving, and will fight to the death for us.. until I feel you aren't reciprocating, then I will cease to give it out. I like to touch, kiss, play with your hair, holding hands is a must. I'll call you just to say I miss and love you. I'll stop on the way home just to pick a flower for you or get you your fave drink, magazine, whatever. I don't want to walk ahead of you or behind you..I want to walk side by side. I want others to look at us and think "I want that". In some ways I am an average guy, but in a lot of ways I'm not. I'll move mountains for you, but need that in return. Don't just quit or give up when something might get a little difficult, not every day is going to be sunshine and rainbows..have passion for us. You want to experience this, then I ask you to message me, you may be surprised by what's in this story, not just on the cover. I'm a gentleman because it's who I am not because it's expected. Read up on Leo's if you're truly interested in me, pretty much to a T