Heavenlydiamond

More about me:

Let's get this out of the way....

I need a man who believes in God.
I want a man who is not afraid of work...I don't care if it's only at the car wash lol.
I want a man who is willing to pay attention to me or important things about me....even if he doesn't feel like it...of course I will give the same.
I want a man who believes most holidays are important.
I want a man who does little things and appreciates them as well.
I want a man who can enjoy McDonald's as well as Applebee's.
I need a man who is a light weight freak...to keep up with me lol.
I want/need a man who will accept me for me...my little quirks. I'll accept a few too.
Last but not least....if there comes a time to let go....I require it be done tactfully. None of this I'll kill you-suicide crap.
Jesus don't like ugly and neither do I.

I believe a true friend will "check" you when you need it!!
I also believe they will humble themselves enough to thank you for the "check" after they snap back to reality!!

And with this said........


Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

I am a full figured woman who loves the Lord. I said full not fat!! LOL My personality is awesome!! I look at a person from the inside out...I enjoy life like there is no tomorrow. Life is too short for head games and drama...don't ya think?!? I am looking for someone who can appreciate the little things in life. I love what the good Lord gave me to work with...maybe someday you can love it too!

AND JUST A REMINDER ... IM not FAT ... IM FUN SIZE!!!!

Well...it's been FOREVER since I thought I caught the right fish...guess I was mistaken...GONE FISHING!!!! Would love to meet people to make new friends to see if anything real develops....NEWARK/HEATH is lonely....