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More about me:

*** Warning: Slightly(?) disabled person ahead; in most ways, though, a normal guy. Others with disabilities are especially welcome.***

A while back, I lost the longtime love of my life to an illness. We helped to care for each other for many years; and I gave her a kidney sometime ago. Still feeling thus somewhat lonely and alone, but trying to move forward to a new soul mate.

I'm down-to-earth, and value a comfortable, easygoing lifestyle. Courteous, empathetic, caring and good-natured. Something of a homebody who enjoys long walks, science, philosophy, conversation, watching movies together, current affairs, etc. I'm not overly concerned about "you know what", but like to be close. Clean fun and living.

I have
found that although decent relationships have ups and downs, it really is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. After all, all relationships must come to an end. Love is embracing similarities while overcoming and taking advantage of dissimilarities.

A couple math and physics long-term projects of interest keep me busy otherwise. I have an interest in also gambling math theory in specific and game theory in general but neither gamble nor frequent the casinos. A bit of a dreamer and free-spirit as well. Certainly, as far as "the odds of lightning striking twice" with love.

Travelling out of town causes my panic attacks for which I could take medication but avoid because of cumulative side effects. (Was told Freud had the same problem with trains. ) I tend to nervousness in formal settings, and large groups. A few other, minor problems. I'm comfortably and productively living on a disability pension. A fair share of freely advocating for and assisting the disabled and otherwise in need over the years.

Please message me if interested.

About my ideal partner:

Seeking someone who enjoys the simple things in life, and each other's company - "Something out of nothing". Who's satisfied with enough. Who's still soft and malleable in nature. After all, the right or made-to-order person doesn't lead to love; love leads to the "right" person, who can notice and embrace similarities while overcome and take advantage of dissimilarities. “We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness - and call it love - true love. ” ~Robert Fulghum