JohnRasko

More about me:

First of all I am not your average guy. There are several things that make me unique. One thing that make me unique is that I have a background in astrophysics and quantum mechanics. You'll just have to ask if you want to know more! Also, I've been told I'm a gentleman and hopeless romantic...yes we do exist! Therefore my motto in life has always been and will always be "Quality vs. Quantity." So, ladies, I am not on here looking for just sex or a "friends with benefits". As my profile says, I am looking for a relationship. That doesn't mean being attached at the hip, but seeing one another often. I currently live and work in the Carroll Valley area working full time as a computer tech. Love to visit the ocean/beaches, museums, theme parks, and pretty much anything that keeps me active. On the other hand, a night in on the couch cuddled up with that special someone watching a movie would be just as nice too. Let's face it, I don't live the life of a rock-star or famous athlete ... but those guys are always getting caught cheating on their wives, so why would I want to live that life?
It sure would make writing this more entertaining, and reading it would be much more fun too. I could tell you about all the exotic cities and expensive hotels I've stayed at while being on tour. All the parties, clubs, alcohol and drugs ... it would make for a much more interesting read.
Maybe the rock-star lifestyle would be fun, but I don't want to live that life and a girl that's looking for that is not for me. While my story might not be Rolling Stone worthy, I do work hard, pay my bills, enjoy the company of my friends & family ... while enjoying myself like I was a rock-star on tour.
Family and friends are most important to me in life. I've learned that money and opportunities come and go, but your friends and family are always there to help you when you need it. I hope one day I can pass down those qualities to a family of my own, and it's why I work so hard today.
I fully don't expect you to message me, I guess if I was getting 20 or 30 messages a day from people I wouldn't have to. Unfortunately real, honest guys like me often get passed over because we don't stand out among the hundreds on here trying to find a date by auto-blasting e-mails they have stored up on a hard drive.
I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same. It would be nice to have someone who would enjoy going out, there's nothing like a good dinner and then going for a walk with a great companion at sunset! But it's give and take too, and I won't complain when you take me along shopping at the mall or while I sit in the waiting room when you get your nails done. :) I understand that being together is the most important part of a relationship no matter what we are doing (besides communication, of course). I'm now looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I'm pretty sure it won't kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I'm totally OK with that, so am I. Anyways I think I wrote enough for now. Anything else feel free to ask or save for the first date ;) Don't be bashful! P.S. If I send you a message and you happen to read it, please either let me know. Even if you are not interested, just say so. You won't offend me, I promise.

About my ideal partner:

My idea of a date is taking you out for a nice lunch or dinner – I'd like to take you on a real date and comes up with a proper plan all on my own. I have no problem making a plan with you well in advance. What a relief for you! I can take the lead and decide on the where, the when, and will remember the small details. I believe chivalry is not dead – would be a total gentleman who shows up on time, is attentive, and walks you to your door at the end of the date. I believe all doors should be opened and all seats should be pulled out for you. I would not try to make a move after the date – other than a respectful kiss goodnight. Ladies, I have no hidden agenda. I will pay the bill without hesitation. I don't believe in being cheap – I would love to order a nice bottle of wine for the table, and have you order whatever you’d like. My idea of conversation is appropriate, charming, and interesting or funny – just like you! I believe in positive energy and there are no awkward silences (unless they are quick and adorable). My whole evening would be reserved for you. I would hope the date was not only fun – but that it lasted for hours! I would enjoy asking you questions and take a genuine interest in what you have to say.