BeaconOfLoveAndHope

More about me:

Hi I'm Cody. I'm 26. I have 2 kids, one who 6 and one who is 4. I am in the process of saving for a down payment for a house mortgage, as a recent breakup left me couch surfing with family and friends. However my children are always safe with me and that's why I am comfortable saving instead of running to the first apartment I see. I mainly am staying with my mother and my oldest son's mom, her fiance, our son, and their son. Yes me and my oldest son's mother are great friends and so are me and her fiance.

I work days at a company in Saline building/fabricating machines from ground up, to electrically wiring them and setting them up to run. Great money, but always looking to make more.

My sons are everything to me. if you can't handle my two kids, or the fact they have different moms please don't waste either of our time. I will never go back to either of their moms as the situations are better for my kids for us not to, and there's too much immature pain from both relationships, on both ends. If you don't think you could trust me on that, please don't bother. They are still recovering from my last breakup. She was a great mother figure until she decided 2 years later it wasn't what she wanted. I don't need drama, and neither do my boys. They will always be my first priority in a situation where its them or anyone else, even myself.

About my ideal partner:

Someone who accepts that my kids will always be the most important to me. I won't not give her time, I'd rather she be involved in time, but at first alright with it slow. If she has kids or has a way of showing she can be a great mom, that's the keeper. She needs to be loyal, as loyal as possible, as I am. She needs to be mature enough to not have insecurities, and can leave the past we go in with as baggage at the door. She should know our mistakes are what made us better people, not be afraid and not believe people can't change.
I'd love her to be bluntly honest. If I fuck up call me out. No head games. It may be obvious to her, but I may not be aware of it. Tell me straight up. I'm not going to get pissed. I'm going to know what to work on now.

Just motivated, has dreams. If she's a mom I'd love her kid(s) as my own, but her motherhood is her most important quality. Dream of a better life for her kid, and sacrifice time and effort for them. If her love is moving forward for her kids she can relate to my views, and we would make a great team. She could understand that we can't be up each other's ass all the time, But She wouldn't be insecure or worried because she trusts I'd be loyal.
For the kids a very slow relationship would be a must, but slow and loyal. I couldn't put myself through lies nd disloyalty, because my chin must stay up for my kids.