Shayleycay

More about me:

Hello gentlemen!

I'm looking to meet the one-and-only man of my life. Let's start a soulfulsexy, spicy-comitted, stimulating devoted passionate 100% monogamous relationship.

Let our honesty and genuineness go so deep that we define love through our unity. May we strive for stability and reliance on each other, and when we fail may we go foreard with acceptance and creative adaptation.

Let's be free together and experience life, love, romance, struggle, growth, the ethic and rewards of hard work, careers, conversation, travel and home making as spouses.

I picture an airy, sunny, bright home, a porch, a yard trees, a veggie garden, flowers a hammock. If we can save for it a jacuzzi for winter a pool for summer.
NO CASUAL SEX NO PRESSURE FOR SEX UNTIL WE BOTH ARE 100% READY.


LOOKING FOR:
Deeply comitted, honest, respectful golden-hearted gentleman roughly 35-55 years old. All colors and cultures are beautiful to me. No young kids, okay with grown and on their own or headed out 18+ kids. Emotionally giving: can apologize, can listen and be gentle when I'm upset. Liberal leaning- more compassion towards humans in all circumstances than leaning towards business sense.

#1 quality sought is steadfast in a storm. Relationships have hard moments. In these moments I need a man who stays in. Doesn't run away physically or metaphorically when I'm struggling or we are struggling.Stays engaged, stays intimate, stays accessible when it's not easy.
#2 trait sought deeply loving, patient, understanding and kind.
# 3 trait sought man who knows who he is what he wants understands his own nature, strengths and weaknesses. Can be wrong, can laugh at himself, can apologize.

WHY YOU WANT ME?
I'm super loving caring understanding forgiving tuned in to you.I love sex and affection once I'm in a deeply comitted relationship and truly loved by my man. I always want to know if I've messed up so I can apologize and do things differently to respect and love you more!
I'm grown and I have a life. I work hard and have lots of friends and interests. You don't need to be everything to me.We don't have to do everything together.I don't need you to text or call or check in every single day. You are your own man. You are free to indulge in your hobbies, friends, interests down-time without flack.
Our time together is precious and mutual and we have a ball.

About my ideal partner:

1. 100% single- not separated or almost divorced or still living with a lady

2. Not a flake, a stand up guy, keeps his word, fulfills his comittments, says yes and means and no when he means it. No Hello gentlemen!

I'm looking to meet the one-and-only man of my life. Let's start a soulfulsexy, spicy-comitted, stimulating devoted passionate monogamy.

Let our honesty and genuineness go so deep that we define love through our unity. May we strive for stability and reliance on each other, and when we fail may we go foreard with acceptance and creative adaptation.

Let's be free together and experience life, love, romance, struggle, growth, the ethic and rewards of hard work, careers, conversation, travel and home making as spouses.

I picture an airy, sunny, bright home, a porch, a yard trees, a veggie garden, flowers a hammock. If we can save for it a jacuzzi for winter a pool for summer.
NO CASUAL SEX NO PRESSURE FOR SEX UNTIL WE BOTH ARE 100% READY.


LOOKING FOR:
Deeply comitted, honest, respectful golden-hearted gentleman roughly 35-55 years old. All colors and cultures are beautiful to me. No young kids, okay with grown and on their own or headed out 18+ kids. Emotionally giving: can apologize, can listen and be gentle when I'm upset. Liberal leaning- more compassion towards humans in all circumstances than leaning towards business sense.

#1 quality sought is steadfast in a storm. Relationships have hard moments. In these moments I need a man who stays in. Doesn't run away physically or metaphorically when I'm struggling or we are struggling.Stays engaged, stays intimate, stays accessible when it's not easy.
#2 trait sought deeply loving, patient, understanding and kind.
# 3 trait sought man who knows who he is what he wants understands his own nature, strengths and weaknesses. Can be wrong, can laugh at himself, can apologize.

WHY YOU WANT ME?
I'm super loving caring understanding forgiving tuned in to you.I love sex and affection, I give it freely and generously. I always want to know if I've messed up so I can apologize and do things differently to respect and love you more!
I'm grown and I have a life. I work hard and have lots of friends and interests. You don't need to be everything to me.We don't have to do everything together.I don't need you to text or call or check in every single day. You are your own man. You are free to indulge in your hobbies, friends, interests down-time without flack.
Our time together is precious and mutual and we have a ball.