BlazeBlack

More about me:

Friendly, kind, understandable, very open minded. Doesn't mind listening but is shy at first, especially in person. Currently working third shift at Stanley Security of Stanley Black and Decker in the Sonitrol Department as a Security Monitoring Specialist. I live with my father only because it is easier to split the rent but he is also a delivery driver for Domino's so it isn't enough on his own, so I'm more or less taking care of him in a sense. And with way things have been going, it isn't cheap to rent on your own as I wish it was. My job pays well but, got to survive.

I'm really good at Listening. I'm not kidding. Sure sometimes I may have my mind wander here and there, but when it's something serious and something that I would want to remember or may need to remember, or if I just love the sound of your voice, I'll do nothing but listen. And I know that there are those who take listening very seriously.

Let me put it this way...if anyone has watched Star Trek, like Generations and Deep Space 9, you could think of me as an El-Aurian, the race of listeners.

My golden rule; Always respect women unless they give a reason not to. Not everyone is a good apple, that goes for all genders. But I'm not going to be disrespectful off the bat unless I'm treated disrespectfully. It's how the saying goes, treat others the way you want to be treated. If a woman insults me or disrespects me, normally I won't care and move on. But if a response is needed, it won't be friendly right back.

But I don't see the need of it. I don't understand why there are those out there that think it's okay to treat women like property. Or women treat men like tools. It makes no sense to me. Our genders are both needed to populate this world and eventually in the future, other worlds.

But for now, on this world, there are men out there making us good men look bad. And it isn't easy. But I still follow by this rule of mine and I won't deviate from it.

Can definitely find more info about me on .. under Samuel, same age and location. But I thought giving this site a shot because I've been noticing 'fake' profiles on OkCupid that has gotten me concerned.

About my ideal partner:

I'm trying to be less judgmental so I am leaving Body type and Height alone, because I want to get to know the person on the inside, I want to get to know who you are to your heart, to your very soul. If you just want to be friends, hey that's fine, feel free to dump any stress, frustrations, anything like that into a message, I'll look it over and provide whatever feedback support I can offer or if you're looking for an honest, blunt answer, just say so and I'll dish it. If you would like to do the same, get to know me for who I am on the inside, look past the looks, the weight, even though I would love to lose the weight but lack the motivation, like seriously if someone was...what's the word, intrusive?...they could just grab my hand, drag my ass out and make me run. Or give me a reason to chase you. That be motivating enough. My job, sitting all the time, doesn't help, nor does what I do at home. Not at all trying to add too much so I'm just going to end it like this: If you want to get to know me, see who I am, how I am, the things I can think of to say, open up this person who is closed up and quiet among his co-workers, then shoot me a message.