UndeadDuelist

More about me:

The good: Creative, honest, reflective. I work to find and overcome my personal biases or flaws, and to take other people's point of view into consideration. I respect personal boundaries (should go without saying, but some guys seem to not grasp the concept).

The neutral: Introverted. I prefer quiet places, away from the hectic bustle and noise. Museum over party.

Sarcastic. My sense of humor can be a bit abrasive until you get used to it.

The bad: Tendency to focus on the negative. Self-doubt. Getting better though. :)

It can take me a while to warm up to someone but once I know them there is no filter and no pretending. If friends and partners don't dare or care to be themselves around each other, what's the point?

Interests: Video games, fantasy, swords, Victorian / Steampunk outfits, historical martial arts, video making, hiking and other outdoor activities.

About my ideal partner:

You're open and honest with your thoughts and feelings. I have no interest in having to guess what's behind the facade, or people who hold a grudge because one of their personal rules or beliefs was somehow violated that they never bothered to talk about.

If you're into nerdy/geeky stuff and/or have an alternative style (goth, metalhead, Steampunk, etc) that's a nice plus. But the most important thing is character (although I won't deny that physical attraction matters too).

I'm looking for (real) friends and more if the chemistry is right. Not sure about casual encounters but would consider it.
Also looking for workout partners, since I tend to lose motivation after months of regular exercise.

You should not be opposed to ethical non-monogamy, since I'm happily married. It has taken my spouse a few years to convince me that monogamy is not the only viable way to do things. I'm still new to poly relationships though, it's still in the conceptual phase so to speak.

Kids are a big no-no, sorry.