SOCpuppet

More about me:

I'm a Silicon Valley native and second generation tech nerd. I'm fairly well educated and a constant student of culture, current events and my interests in science and tech.

I believe everyone thinks their story is unique and special. I hope mine will be interesting to you, I think it is pretty hard to match.

Having lived it, I could either laugh or cry. I choose laughter.

Life has taught me to value friendship and love.

I have a pretty easy time finding friends. Love is harder to come by. My dream is to find both in one woman.

I'm looking for monogamy but I have an introverted side that needs a certain amount of alone time and I'm not going to ghost my friends to have a relationship with a super clingy woman.

Ideally I would like to find a woman who I can integrate in to my friend group and I'll like her friend group too.

I have seen many women who put on a friendly face and then trash talk behind people's backs, I don't like that type of group. It's almost as bad as a boring group.

Oh, I treat social media as a disease. I will text message but sending five texts is a big day for me, I want a relationship with a woman not a screen.

I hope the last part isn't a downer, in the interest of saving time, I want to be clear about what I want and what I'm not going to be.

Thanks for reading.

About my ideal partner:

My favorite women are smart enough to challenge me, independent enough not to need me, tolerant of my corny jokes and double entendre but also willing to consider my point of view.

Physical attraction is important to get my attention. Regrettably I am too shallow to do without but I think most women can figure out how to express their beauty.

As much as I appreciate beauty in a woman, I find it hard to reflect my good taste back on me. I haven't figured out how to express my beauty. I think I only have two possible avenues: lumber/retro-sexual. I do not enjoy formal dress, casual is my thing 99% of the time.